Brudtäcke i rosenrött – men skulle det verkligen bli något bröllop 1853?

Under ett par sommarveckor har jag skrivit av brev från Augustas mamma till Augusta under tiden 1852-1853, när Augusta bodde i Stockholm för att få behandling för sin TBC.  Augusta var nu förlovad med Adolf Nordwall men mamma Anna ifrågasatte det stundande bröllopet. Skulle verkligen Augustas hälsa klara av ett bröllop.

I breven försöker hon övertala Augusta att skjuta upp bröllopet ett år.

”Malmsten hade sakt åt svåger att det vore ett stort oförnuft att låta dig i år gifta dig, äfven lär doktorerna her säga att det vore din död.” (Professor Malmsten var Augustas läkare i Stockholm.)

”Det är förlidsamt med en envishet att villa gifta er i höst. Om du då är som nu, ett stackars skrälle, så är ju det ett verkligt spektakel att gifta en sådan och huru kan Adolf vilja det som skall vara en förståndig man, jag begriper det ej.”

Brudutstyrseln tar form

Samtidigt handlar breven om det stora arbetet med att iordningställa Augustas brudutstyrsel. Och då talar vi om att utrusta en gård med allt vad textilier innebär. Sängkläder, lakan, handdukar, dukar, servetter…. Och det för både familj och tjänstefolk. Och det handlade om hela tillverkningsprocessen. Tyg skulle vävas, blekas, sys, stoppas… Det tog tid och uppehöll många av gårdens kvinnor och även väverskor och sömmerskor i ”stan”. Genom breven får jag följa tillverkningsprocessen, en fantastisk beskrivning av kvinnohantverk! Hösten 1852 börjar korrespondensen. Den 16 november skriver Anna:

”Denna vecka är din servettdräll färdig och i lördags köpte jag garn till en 3 1/2 dussin servetter och 3 dukar väftergarn köpte jag till, det bli ett fint duktyg och ett mycket vackert mönster, de skall sätta upp det i nästa vecka. Då det blir färdigt skall jag låta väfva 6 stycken The dukar 2 alnar breda och långa, sedan är du väl i fina duktyger, vi hinna nog i sommar att väfva flere saker ty du får ej gifta dig så brått.”

Så fortsätter rapporteringen under vintern och framåt våren handlar breven om det vi på IKEA kallar bäddtextil. Tänk så mycket enklare och snabbare det går idag att utrusta ett hem! Men nog var allt vackrare på Augustas tid, handvävt och broderat. Och man förvaltade sina textilier väl och när de var utnötta, vände man på lakanen och sydde ihop dem på nytt. Och till slut vävde man trasmattor av de utslitna tygerna.

”Vi, Branta och jag, hålla nu på att stoppa dina täcken. Det blir 4 enmanstäcken och två åt folket. Lina syr på dina vardagslakarn och Malla gör ej annat än stryker. Väfvar Madam har nu varit her och tagit till ett groft bolster åt dina pigor samt åt madrasser i dina gästsängar. Drällarna är nästan blekta. De ha legat på snön. På lärftslakarn är jag dålig. Jag har ännu ej mer än 4 par. Jag har tänkt ta 100 alnar lärft hos Söderholm. Han har fått sin fjolräkning betalt fast jag ej varit inne. Rättar Madam har till pigornas sängar lakarn att väfva så att det blir 8 par som väl går an att börja med dina vardagslakarn blir 12 par med örngottsvar. Jag har köpt 1 LB (skålpund) dun. Den var dyr den kostade 55 Rdr. Huru vi skall få ny fjäder vet jag ej om ej Adolf genom bekant kan skaffa om kring Vadstena som är Gåsbygden.”

Vilka mängder av textil allt handlade om! Men tvättade man lakan två gånger om året behövdes ett stort linneförråd.

Så i kanten av ett brev hittar jag en kort notering:

”Brudtäcket stickas nu av rosenrött sidengarn.”

Det blev bröllop, i augusti.

 

Bilder:

Brudtäcke Västergötlands museum

Lakan från Skokloster slott

Bolstervar Örebro läns museum

Bolstervar från Skansen

Mademoiselle Frigel and her Girls

Illustration of Little Women. Frank T. Merrill. 1880
Little Women. Illustration by Frank T. Merrill. 1880

In the fall of 1841, Augusta started school in Stockholm. It was a boarding school run by Mrs. Lovisa Edgren and her husband, Johan Fredrik Edgren. During the summer of 1844, the Edgrens moved and the school closed. Augusta still had one more year to study in Stockholm so what school did she attend in the fall of 1844?

Augusta’s best friend Lotten kept in touch with Augusta after they had both finished school in 1845. She updated Augusta on the latest gossip.

I thought that if I could learn more about Augusta’s friends, I might be able to get the pieces of the puzzle and figure out which school they all attended.

What I never realized was that the answer was in plain sight in some of Lotten’s letters – Mademoiselle (Mlle) Frigel. I even quoted it in my blog about Augusta’s friend, Adele Peyron:

“Yesterday, I was visiting Mlle Frigel and she always asks about you and sent her warmest regards. Adèle Peyron also sent you many greetings. Erica Degermann and I are invited to Mlle Frigel on a final ball on Tuesday.” (16 April 1846)

On 18 December 1845, Lotten writes:

Your greetings to Mlle Frigel and the girls have already been conveyed.”

It was that sentence I reacted to. It wasn’t a mother and her girls that Augusta was sending greetings to – it was a mademoiselle and her girls. Didn’t that sound like a teacher and her girls?

How would I find out?

Googling Frigel + Stockholm leads me to a famous composer and professor of music theory. He was during the late 1700s and early 1800s Sweden’s most renowned music theorist – Pehr Frigel (1750 – 1842). He married Maria Charlotta Palmroth (1766-1797). Did they have any unmarried daughters that could have been teachers?

More googling.

They had three daughters: Beata Helena Charlotta (2 December 1790 – 26 November 1855), Andriette Christina (21 September 1795 – 6 October 1882), and Margareta (who died in infancy). Either Charlotte or Andriette could have been a teacher – or both.

Charlotta Frigel

I start looking for Charlotta. The first place I search is the digitized census records for Stockholm. I only find P. Frigel in the 1835 census records and, sure enough, it is Pehr Frigel. He, his daughter Charlotta, and a “cleaning woman,” are listed at the same address. Andrietta must have been living somewhere else.

What happened to Charlotta after 1835?

Now I search the Royal Library’s digitized newspapers for any mention of Charlotta. There are two hits.

The first one is in the Daglig Allehanda newspaper of 17  July 1840, noting that “by the Royal Majesty” Charlotta and her sister Andrietta and 8 other girls have been granted the right to be legally independent (Swedish: ”att vara myndig”). Unmarried girls could apply for this right but it wasn’t until 1863 that women automatically were granted this right at the age of 25. Of course, if they married they lost this right and their husbands became their guardians.

The second notice about Charlotta is her death notice. It states: “Death in the provincial towns: Mademoiselle Beata Helena Charlotta Frigel at Aske Manor in Uppland, 26 November 1855, 65 years old.”

Did she become a private teacher in some wealthy family?

Aske Manor as it looked in 1879 (Upplandsmuseet)
Aske Manor as it looked in 1879 (Upplandsmuseet)

I search on Frigel + Aske and find the memoirs of Adolf Ludvig Sehmann, born 1809 at Aske manor.

“From my 4th year, 1813, I still vividly remember two events: a funeral for a merely one-year-old little brother, and the arrival of a teacher, Mademoiselle Charlotte Frigel, for my sisters. I can still vividly see her looks and clothing in front of me as if it was just yesterday.”

It is a long memoir, but very interesting, about his family’s extensive travels in Europe over several years, their health issues, and their deep religiosity.

I look up the sister who Charlotta, at age 23, was hired to teach in 1813. Johanna Vilhelmina (Mimmi) was 6 years old. Two years later, a second daughter, Maria Carolina Matilda, was born.

I don’t know how many years Charlotta stayed at Aske and whether she was living there or just visiting when she died in 1855.

Today Aske is a small conference center.

Andriette Frigel

Her name appears with three different spellings: Andriette, Andrietta, and Andréetta. In the census records, she is listed as the head of the household with the title of “sekreterardotter”, daughter of a secretary. Her father, Pehr Frigel, was the permanent secretary of The Royal Swedish Academy of Music. He was also a secretary in the Royal State Office.

Mlle Frigel's census record for 1845.
Mlle Frigel’s census record for 1845.

Digitized census records of Andriette’s household exist for the years 1845 and 1870. I first pull up the image for 1845. I can hardly believe what I see.

I have found Augusta’s school! Andriette Frigel is Mlle Frigel in Lotten’s letters!

“Undersigned, daughter to the late secretary in the Royal State Office, Pehr Frigel, and through the Royal Majesty’s graceful resolution of 19 June 1840 declared legally independent, maintains a boarding institute for girls.”

The girls boarding with Mademoiselle Frigel are listed as Adelaide Peyron, Mathilda Biel, and Elizabeth Biel. All three had boarded with Mrs. Edgren the year before (in addition to Augusta and Josefine Stenbock).

Google street view of where Mlle Frigel had her boarding school in 1845.
Google street view of where Mlle Frigel had her boarding school in 1845.

And where did Andriette live? In 1845, her address is listed as the block named Blåman, House No. 8 or, according to the new numbering system, Drottninggatan (Queen Street) 53. I enter the address into Google Maps and smile. Of course, I know where that is. It is a clothing store – Indiska. Every time I am in Stockholm, I check out their sales. So this is where Augusta went to school during the fall of 1844 and the spring of 1845. And it is very close to where she was living, boarding with the Ribbing family. That place is now a Starbucks Café close to the Central Station. Of course, the locations are the same, not the houses. Soon I will be able to lead walking tours through Stockholm in the footsteps of Augusta. We will meet at Starbucks!

So what happened to Andriette later in life? There is one note stating that she was an artist – something I have not been able to verify. I search the digitized daily newspapers again and find her death notice. She died in Stockholm in 1882 at the age of 87.

Pehr Frigel’s Funeral and Jenny Lind

Which brings me back to Andriette’s father, Pehr Frigel. He lived to be 92. His funeral in 1842 was grand, to say the least. The daily paper wrote about the music that was performed and the solo artists – including Jenny Lind. She was only 22 years old and belonged to the same parish as Pehr Frigel. She would soon become world-renowned.

A note on Pehr Frigel's funeral (Daglig Allehanda, 10 December 1842)
A note on Pehr Frigel’s funeral (Daglig Allehanda, 10 December 1842)

Jenny Lind in 1840
Jenny Lind in 1840

 

 

 

Augusta’s friend: Erika Degerman

Augusta and her friends listening to Mrs. Edgren outside the Edgren School
Augusta and her friends listening to Mrs. Edgren outside the Edgren School

In April 1846, Augusta’s friend Lotten writes to Augusta about a ball she and Erica Degermann (Lotten’s spelling) has been invited to. Erika was one of Augusta’s friends in Stockholm.

The picture is slowly developing of the group of friends Augusta had during her teenage years in Stockholm.

  • They were wealthy but not necessarily belonging to the noble class.
  • Their parents invested in them so that they might marry well – that is, moving up in society or at least have a comfortable life.
  • Several came from other parts of Sweden as Stockholm was the optimal place to study and make connections.
  • They were boarding with relatives, upper-class widows, or teachers in boarding schools.

This week, I have found Erika Degerman. Who was she?

Christina Erika Degerman was born on 5 October 1829.

Erika's parents. Like many parents, they had great hopes for their daughter. They also had the means to send her to Stockholm to get a good education.
Erika’s parents. Like many parents, they had great hopes for their daughters. They also had the means to send them to Stockholm to get a good education.

She was the daughter of Erik Degerman (1782-1867) and Fredrika Dorotea Lindgren. Erik Degerman had, at the age of 25, inherited the ownership and management of Degerfors ironworks close to Piteå in northern Sweden. Presumably, Erika was boarding in Stockholm in order to get an education and socialize, just like Augusta. We don’t know where she lived. All we know is that she received her first communion in 1846 in Klara church, so she must have resided in that parish. Maybe she also went to Mrs. Edgren’s school?

Erika's husband, Carl Helmer Hampus Mörner.
Erika’s husband, Carl Helmer Hampus Mörner.

In 1850, Erika married Carl Helmer Hampus Mörner, a nobleman and lieutenant, in her hometown of Piteå. They became parents of two daughters and three sons, but had only 2 granddaughters. One of those, Dagmar Salén, became the first Swedish woman to win an Olympic medal in sailing. Together with her husband, Sven Salén, they took bronze in the 1936 Summer Olympics.

There seems to be an interesting family saga to be discovered for each of Augusta’s school friends!

Augusta’s friend: Adèle Peyron

The view of Klara Church from the location of Mrs Edgren’s school
Adele with her two daughters in 1860. Adele is 29 years old in the picture.

It’s already August, but what a fun summer Kerstin and I have had. First, we visited places where our great-great-grandmother, Augusta Söderholm, had played as a kid or visited as a young woman, then we spent a night on a steam-engine ship, and then we traveled by both steam ships and steam trains. Back in Stockholm, we visited the city archives to find out more about Augusta’s school in Stockholm. Finally, one of the highlights of the summer was our participation in the activities at Torekällberget, a living-history museum in Södertälje. We now have lots of materials for future blogs!

But right now, I am on a mission to find Augusta’s school friends. I have slowly been going through the correspondence between Augusta and her best friend, Lotten Westman, and trying to put faces to the names mentioned.

”Stockholm 16 April 1846

My own Augusta!

Thank you, thank you, for your latest and, for so long, an anticipated letter which was dearly received.

… Yesterday, I was visiting Mademoiselle Frigel and she always asks about you and she sent you her warmest regards. Adèle Peyron also sent you lots of greetings. Erica Degermann and I are invited to Mademoiselle Frigel on a graduation ball on Tuesday…”

Adèle Peyron

So, who was her friend, Adèle Peyron (or Peijron)?

Census record in 1843. Girls boarding with Mrs Edgren, including Augusta and Adele.

Her full name was Adèlaide Virginia Peyron and she was born 13 June 1831 in Stockholm – so she was 4 years younger than Augusta. Adèle, Augusta, and 3 other girls all boarded with their teacher, Mrs. Edgren, and her husband in their house on Stora Wattugränd 12 in Stockholm. Kerstin and I visited the place where their house once stood, just behind Klara Church. Now it is an office building clad in steel.

Did the girls share beds? It was very common in the 1800s. It was also a way to keep warm in the winter. I assume they would have become very close, just like sisters.

So what happened to Adèle?

She married chamberlain Gabriel Gerhard Sigge Sparre af Rossvik in 1853 and had 2 sons and 2 daughters. But her life was marred by a tragedy.

”Sad Things Still Happen”

That is the title and the first words of a ballad we sang in Sweden as kids. It tells the sad love story of the nobleman and lieutenant, Sixten Sparre (who was already married and had 2 children), and a famous Danish circus artist, Elvira Madigan. Desperately in love, they decided to run away to Denmark. Having no means to support themselves and no one coming to their rescue, they then planned to commit suicide – a romantic last picnic before Sixten shot Elvira and then himself.

Movie poster for the film Elvira Madigan, 1967.

The news were all over the papers in the summer of 1889. And the ballad about Elvira Madigan became famous throughout Sweden through “Skilling Prints” – inexpensive prints of song texts. And 100 years later, the ballad is still famous. Not to mention an award-winning movie made in 1967.

Adèle Peyron and Sixten Sparre

Augusta’s friend, Adèle, was Sixten’s mother.

In 1844, when Adèle and Augusta were both listed as living in the Edgren household, Adèle was only 12 years old. They were learning German and French together, doing their embroideries, and going to children’s balls. She could never have imagined the events that were going to affect her family, nor the shock and sorrow she would experience on receiving the news about her son.

While searching for Adèle, I landed on another blog. The blog is written by Adèle’s great-great-granddaughter, Kathinka Lindhe. She writes about Adèle and about a book she has published. And there is a picture of Adèle! I find it fascinating that we are both blogging about our great-great-grandmothers – who were best friends!

Engel Fröberg – en helt bortglömd ung kvinna

Åter sitter jag med näsan i de digitaliserade kyrkböckerna. Jag försöker verifiera vilka som flyttade in och ut och vid vilka tidpunkter. Jag håller på att skriva ett kapitel om Loddby för min bok om Augustas resa. Så dyker det upp ett namn som jag inte sett förut. En ung dam som flyttar in på Loddby. Mamsell Engel Johanna Euphrosyne Fröberg. Vilket namn! Henne måste jag ta reda på mer om.

Varför flyttar Engel till Loddby? Så får jag gå den långa vägen genom inflyttningslängder i en socken och  utflyttningslängder i en annan. Husförhörsprotokollen är de intressantaste, där står ofta lite udda anteckningar om folks leverne.  Men Engel är som sitt namn, inga skandaler. Hon flyttar in på Loddby 1836 från Grebo prestgård och gör inget väsen av sig förrän hon flyttar tillbaka till Grebo 1841. Det står att hon är trolovad i Grebo och jag blir nyfiken på vem.

Tillbaka i Grebo hittar jag henne i lysnings och vigselboken 1841. Hon gifter sig med själva prästen! Inte kyrkoherden, men en pastorsadjunkt Julius Molander. En suddig anteckning visar att Julius praktiserat under ett par år. Det var kanske därför Engel skickades till Loddby för att i fem år invänta att Julius blev färdig präst. Engel var ju jämnårig med Augustas syster Charlotte. Jag har en känsla av att hon var avlägsen släkting, eftersom jag hittar sockennamn i hennes bakgrund som jag även ser i Augustas mammas. Det var nog inte ovanligt att man hade inackorderade släktingar på den här tiden.

I oktober 1843 hittar jag henne igen, som nybliven mor till Engel Julia Marianna. Och plötsligt hittar jag bland dopvittnena Frk Mamsell Augusta Söderholm! Se där, de hade kontakt även efter flytten från Loddby. Och dopvittnen var viktiga personer. Ett annat vittne är Engels egen mamma Enkefru Borgmästarinnan A. M. Fröberg.

Jag söker vidare på borgmästare Fröberg och det visar sig att Engels pappa var borgmästare i Västervik fram till sin död 1817 och mammans familj, Tenger, var en mäktig handlarfamilj i Västervik.

Hur gick det sedan då. Ingenstans i släkforskardatabaser hittar jag Engels namn. Däremot står det att dottern Engel Julia Maria har en annan mamma. Fel, fel, fel. Fostermamma  kanske. När jag tittar noggrannare på Julius i rullorna, hittar jag en liten anteckning att han blev änkling 1844. Jag hittar hennes bouppteckning i alla fall, hon dog i januari, tre månader efter dotterns födelse. Annars har hon inte lämnat några spår alls, så sorgligt. Hon har bara gått upp i rök, blivit just en ängel.

Grebo prästgård

 

Bilden överst föreställer Clara Fröberg och är tecknad av Maria Röhl. Finns på KB, Bilden har  inget att göra med Engel, men året är detsamma och förmodligen frisyr, klänning och det jag föll för: den ödmjuka blicken.

Uppdatering september 2018:

Ur brev från mamma Anna till Augusta 7 april 1845:

”Jag har haft brev från Molander om Engels sista stunder hon hade stora plågor  men allt har en öfvergång, han lofvar mig än ett bref och en blomma från Engels graf.”